- Mr. Rogers: Do you sometimes wish you could be the bride or the groom in a wedding? Most children have wishes like that, and it seems like a long time to wait until you're grown-up enough to be a real bride or groom. Of course, the most important thing about a wedding is the love that people have for one another. The fancy clothes, and flowers, and presents are all very nice, but it's the people caring for each other that really makes the wedding.