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7/10
Interesting but hard to watch
velvetbird20 November 2016
Interesting but hard to watch crime documentary that starts out with the premise of Mason Jenkins's guilt. He's been convicted and is serving his time and whatever stories he's told over the years, the possibility of his innocence isn't really on the table here. Instead, the documentary is mostly focused on the aftermath of the crime and the relationship of this eviscerated family unit.

I felt somewhat uncomfortable watching this intimate footage of his families pain. From the police interview tapes from the time of the murder to the aunt who wants to support the parents but can't condone their frankly desperate support for their son. Its just hard to watch the two parents clinging to the idea of a family their son already effectively stole from them. The visits in the sad little prison house illustrate this perfectly; it's not a real home the relationships are a performance and murdered Jennifer is conspicuously absent. It's an interesting contrast that the prison guard who has no such emotional investment in Mason's innocence has no time for his lying.

As for the killer himself, I have to say he's frustratingly banal. Not very bright, not ready to take on the mantle of guilt but not able to lie convincingly either. He comes across as a big fat adult baby- childishly dependant on his parents yet frustrated by their enmeshment, narcissistically selfish like a toddler. I feel he can't admit to the murder because of the narcissistic blow that would be to his ego, he'd risk losing the support of his parents upon whose approval he seems dependant. They need him to be their child so they can cling to the family unit idea and he can't handle the withdrawal of their approval so they're all trapped and can only sneak up on the truth in tiny slow steps. The truth being that their son is a killer who feels no real love or respect for them. I can't help but wonder what signs might have been ignored during his upbringing that let him turn into such a monster.
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7/10
Horrific and Confusing
tmendonca-5095614 October 2019
I don't understand how these parents can stand by this idiot of a son... he's a horrible, pathetic, lying monster. So very sad..
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7/10
Sad and Frustrating
Mehki_Girl21 February 2019
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Sad because of what their loser son did. And frustrating because in the face of every fact, the parents are supporting this fat, narcissist, POS murderer.

You just want to reach through the screen and shake them.

Want a family? Face reality and get a dog. Guarantee the dog won't steal money, go in and out of jail repeatedly, lie again and again, kill your child, and plan to kill you.

The other frustrating part of their not facing the truth and reality, is their attempts to separate themselves from Detroit which is 45 minutes away.

Any criminal history, the dad is asked and dad vehemently responds, NO, nothing like that.

You know except for the peaky little fact that your criminal son blew your daughter's brains out all over the basement.

No, they relate a cutsey story about how he stole cars and was such a nice guy, he'd wasd the car, gas them, and return them. I'm sure the people he stole cars from really appreciated his thoughtfulness.

The fact is, crime isn't just a city or inner city problem, it's an everywhere problem.

You raised a sociopath. Mom with the mental health training needs to face that. You're family is dysfunctional. Just as dysfunctional of parents living in bad conditions and trying to raise their kids right. He tried to murder you, too. How many people in the inner city are attempting to murder their parents and are murdering their siblings?
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Emotionally Unsettling
misscath-0266820 January 2019
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I am still struggling to understand this movie. I don't have children so I cannot relate to standing by a child who has confessed to murder. The fact that these parents stood by this degenerate man for so long without knowing the complete story. I feel that Mason killed his sister out of jealousy and resentment. You don't kill your sibling "accidentally" and then shoot her 4 more times. The mom appears to be fake cheerful in most of these scenes and where are the tears? The dad has more anger. I did feel for the mom and dad. I doubt that I would be able to accept my child if he admitted that he thought about murdering me. They seem so desperate to hang on to their last surviving child so there family won't break apart. IMO that family shattered when their daughter was murdered by their son.
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7/10
Bad things happen to good people
burntorange24 February 2022
Mason Jenkins is clearly a sociopath. He started stealing and committing other crimes at a young age, he thinks he's smarter than everyone else when clearly he isn't. He's also child-like and concerned only about his needs.

He's a liar and has no remorse for his actions. Hopefully the mom has removed her son from the will for her own safety. I do think he was jealous of and hated his sister and does not regret killing her. As a parent, my heart breaks for his mom and dad.. an impossible situation with no way out.

Don't know if he's still in prison but Mason Jenkins is a dangerous man.
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7/10
Gutting
aarpcats16 June 2022
My Uncle left for WWI thinking he was off to a great adventure. Like every other member of our family since the Revolution, he wanted to serve his country and his people. However, when he came home, he brought a chest full of the highest military medals and a bad case of PTSD. He was still repeating the aphorism that war was months of boredom interrupted by moments of terror decades later, and he said that, eventually, he only remembered the terror.

In this heart wrenching documentary, the parents of a teenaged boy and girl come home to find their daughter shot to death in their basement. They slowly piece together that their son is responsible, and the rest of the film is how they learn to deal with the new normal.

Never have I seen a documentary that focused on the tedium of despair, but anyone who has ever lost someone to a sudden death knows exactly what that means. The terror of loss is immediate and overwhelming, but then comes the numbing dullness of cleaning up the death site, arranging the funeral, etc. The trouble comes afterward, when there is nothing concrete to do but to mentally break down what happened again and again.

As in war, it can take months or years to break down and understand what happened. When the sudden death is caused by a family member, the denial is so much stronger than reality. It has its own kind of PTSD.

The film maker here spares nothing in showing the audience how a family problem ignored becomes a family tragedy. Parents love their kids, even when their kids are sociopaths. A family will seek some kind of normalcy, even in the agony of loss, and it will do so because the terror is just beneath the surface.

Also, Mason needs to stay in prison.
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7/10
What Would You Do?
eop19727 May 2019
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A thought-provoking documentary that makes you wonder... if my only living child not only murdered by other child, but admitted to having planned on murdering me, too, what would I do? I admit that at the beginning of the film, I was perplexed and irritated to see them supporting their son who clearly still does not show an appropriate level of emotion when discussing the case around his dead sister and the savagery he himself inflicted upon her. He is clearly a sociopath and I have no qualms stating that. However, these parents demonstrate unwavering support of him, knowing he murdered their child, and that is unbelievable and fascinating to watch. I personally don't think I could ever choose the stance they maintain. They chose something much braver than I personally could ever do. I respect and admire them and their losses are palpable throughout this film, especially those of the father. My only complaint about the film is that the victim Jennifer is barely discussed. I would have liked to seen more photos of her and known more about HER life as she is the one who paid the ultimate price for her brother's callous and evil intent. I also felt like this kid had a troubled past and that wasn't touched upon too much so although the motive is clear, it's not really understood. That being said, as a documentary, it's hard to hit every point. I appreciate the interview of the aunt when she spoke of not being judgmental of the parents. It is very passionate and emotional. Also they don't lay the whole story out in the beginning which is a good thing. There are some twists that are introduced throughout the story. It's a sad documentary, but worth watching.
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10/10
Psychopath ...
bootbj7 February 2019
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Mason shot his sister ..."by accident" but instead of calling 911 he shoots her 4 more times and drags her downstairs to the basement. His plan had been to kill his parents to get money and had written a will with his dad earlier that day. He had only been out of prison 12 days when he killed his sister. This man is a narcissistic psychopath and his parents still don't really hold him accountable despite finally finding out the truth. I think they incorrectly hold themselves partially responsible and feel guilty when in reality their son made all the choices that he made. This documentary is so disturbingly unbelievable. I really feel for the parents ... When they talk and meet with their son its like they're avoiding the elephant in the room or still behaving towards their son as "Oh, you killed your sister. There, there ... It's ok." And move forward. I don't understand it..Mason was jealous of his sister and other friends who were being successful and he felt resentful to his parents for being happy for them. Mason also admitted he didn't want to tell the truth because he felt his parents wouldn't love him anymore and he would be alone. All of Mason's actions have been to serve Mason's needs and his alone without regard for anyone else.
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7/10
Compelling if otherwise very unsettling. (Is there a doctor in the house?)
herrick41611 January 2022
Witnessing a family's pain as entertainment is a pretty ruthless appeal and possibly an insult to an audience, me included, that may have been just as riveted had the tv reporters invited some brilliant therapists, some mental health professionals to accompany and guide these sessions. Without that aspect of compassion that may have artfully demanded logic from the son instead of these ridiculous stories that ignore the room entirely, forget the elephant....where's the road through to healing? Where's the chance of resolution, solace or any comfort at all. Except that's none of our business except it's been made our business by airing and sharing lovely parents in an impossible situation doing the best they can. I just hope they're getting that support from those who might have advised them to skip the entertaining us but just as said near the end, how can we possibly judge what few could likely survive at all-the loss of both children under circumstances that are close to the worst. God bless them. Well done documentary for what it provokes ... a lot of questions.
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9/10
Absolutely riveting.
clairelouise515 November 2020
This was an excellent documentary about a twisted and horrific situation these poor parents found them selves in. You can see the devastation and toll it has taken on them. He seems like a sociopath, more or less. The way he reminisced about his sister on the anniversary to his Dad. You can understand their reasons for doing what they are doing. The Dad's sister says they are a mother and father, they are 'mothering and fathering'. But it also feels like a toxic situation, surely, especially given what was revealed throughout the documentary.
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6/10
Interesting
newbantc17 February 2022
Well done. A whodunit knowing whodunit. Reminded me of Jon Bennet. I think there might have been some things going on that he doesn't want to talk about. Creepy.
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8/10
3 people living a lie. Not just 1
pete-9546215 October 2022
There are telling moments in this documentary where you can see it is also the parents who are scared of the truth.

Denial comes in many forms and this film reveals the weakness and fragility that envelops this family.

3 people made a choice to continue living as if this tragedy never happened. If the mother and father can be so pragmatic then is this about their love for their son or their own selfish needs taking precedence. That is that they made a choice to keep their son in their life rather than face the reality of what he did and it's consequences.

Shamefully, the murdered sibling and how she died has almost become an irrelevance.

At the beginning I felt empathy for the parents and what they must have been going through. By the end that had long since disappeared.
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6/10
The son is a liar!!!!
spedld14 April 2023
It's obvious from the beginning that the son killed his sister and lied about the whole thing. He has a smirk on his fat face the entire time when he's talking about killing his sister. He shows no remorse whatsoever and never acts upset. It's also obvious the poor parents are in total denial and maybe that's how they cope. I wish he'd be honest and just say the whole truth, cause these parents would still go visit him and pretend everything is ok. The aunts are the only honest ones. Too bad the dad died in 2016 with this heartache. Glad his parole was denied in 2014 and hope he isn't out when 25 years is up!
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5/10
A born killer, a clear sociopath.
tnfinome24 January 2019
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Mason Jenkins doesn't appear to be very smart nor is his story very credible. It's obvious he hated his sister because she was smart and good. He was a failure in his own life and wanted her out of the way. He wanted to kill his parents for their money so he could feel successful and play the big dog. He is a waste of good air and his poor parents are stuck with the hoffible knowledge of what he planned to do. They should cut ties with him to punish him for what he did.
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7/10
Hmmm...
cquantrall24 June 2023
The mother was janky. Even in the initial emergency call, she never mentioned her daughter. Simply referred to her as a body. The father knew the son was capable of violence, he just shut his mouth and went along with whatever his wife told him to say. She was bizarrely dispassionate about her daughter. The son was too stupid to keep his lies straight. This is one straight up dysfunctional family. Poorly educated, emotionally vacant. Absolutely no self awareness whatsoever. The mother discusses the sons criminal history like it is a cute little quirk. The father claims it was a terrible accident, well sure, people get terribly and accidentally shot in the head in the basement all of the time. Let's just forget Jennifer ever existed and play happy family prison bbq. With tax payer dollars. Seven stars because whilst being compelling, these moronic sociopaths should never have been given the airtime, had to turn it off.
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9/10
A quiet little movie that is full of emotion
sahayden22 September 2014
This movie is not flashy or full of the beautiful people doing exciting things. It's 10 years after a family tragedy, a family ripped apart and not yet back together, afraid of asking questions when they might not want the answers. My heart was heavy every minute, always with the ultimate question, "What would I do?" I know the family is still suffering with pain and doubt, and my heart aches for them. I can't fault the parents for any of their choices. These people are such "normal folk" as they say. This movie makes me aware that even if you decide to be dull and normal, other people can rip that choice away from you, and then what do you do?
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9/10
A Great Documentary That Asks A Fundamental Question
qersdyn12 March 2019
If you have a child/children, this film makes you ask a fundamental question: whether you agree with what the father & mother did in forgiving their son for what he did - and tried to do - would you be that kind of parent?
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8/10
The Father Passed Away
tonyhf5 March 2019
This was an interesting doc.

I gave it 8 stars for the parents and for the daughter they lost.

Nothing to say about Mason.

I googled the father and see he passed away in 2016.

Hope his wife is coping ok.
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1/10
What a lying coward
jmdarden-2510221 January 2019
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This guy after murdering his sister can't even tell a convincing story, tripping himself up in the police interview when he says there are "four OTHER people involved". The TEN years later, claims he's "willing" to tell the story, claims an explanation for the first shot, an "accident" but when it comes to the multiple shots, conveniently (and I'm QUOTING) there are "parts he CHOOSES to not remember". Seriously? Give us a break. What a narcissistic brat.
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9/10
Never seen anything like it
HumbleMensa22 December 2021
This story that unfolds throughout this documentary is so unusual. Talk about layers of family love and making choices. Whew. The documentary is well done and all I can say without giving it away is that I was baffled by the calmness through such a shocking set of situations ---the trauma, grief, and horror of the realization of what was really going on. Oh, and that kid is still not being truthful --- keep your eyes on his eyes as you watch. I feel like I need to take a shower now to wash off the cringeworthy and disturbing film of WTF did he/she/he just say that I feel all over me right now.
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9/10
Interesting story but hard to handle
missbehaven-8363328 February 2023
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Just like every other persons critique , I feel the same way. Five minutes into the documentary( and I read people well) , I knew this guy was a pathological liar, and that he had done it. He is an absolute narcissist, and just keeps lying. Towards the end of the documentary when they are getting him to give a little bit more information (which I still think he was lying about!) , you'll notice he talks a lot about himself, and how he had so many short comings, and he felt this way and blah blah blah. Never once says anything about regretting what he did or seems shameful. This is so hard to watch because the mother and father are so forgiving and I think that Dad really doesn't want to forgive him but he's doing so to keep their family together since they've lost their daughter, plus I think he's doing it to appease the mom. It was blatantly obvious to me within the first 20 minutes The reason he did it is because he's a lowlife and never did anything positive in his life and he took it out on his sister who was a winner. And the reason he was going to kill his parents was because he was probably mad at them over jealousy with his sister. You see the way they dote on him and how sweet they are. How could anyone ever believe that he didn't get spoiled and that's probably one of the reasons that he acts the way he does. This is a good documentary, but there really is no happy ending because that girl suffered and he's still getting what he wants.
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8/10
Mason is still lying
pertiwizahracitra22 July 2021
Really good doc, miss short documentary like this. Netflix put too much fillers now a days. Hope he doesn't get the will from his parents.
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3/10
Parents?
ajsabbo-516-66685731 January 2022
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While this was well-made, It sucked simply because they chose never to ask many important questions, such as: Do these parents feel guilty? They clearly had so much denial about this, it seems like they probably created the envoirment for a sociopath to become dangerous. The father never even manning up enough to confront the murderer of His Daughter is pathetic. It will be hard to mourn for these parents WHEN he kills them. If this documentary was trying to show how damaging refusal to see or accept the truth can be - it would have been good. But that was what they inadvertantly showed.
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10/10
Watch it twice
m-lewandowska8522 June 2022
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This documentary is well worth watching twice. Before you know the whole story and after you have learned about all of the events. The first time is sad the second time it is chilling.
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10/10
Killed his father too.
donamedina5 June 2023
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This documentary was depressing, riveting, scary, unbelievable, confusing, and enraging. Mason Jenkins, who, indeed, murdered his sister in cold blood and not by accident as he continued to spew for ten years, is a deeply unlikable monster who was so jealous of his younger sister he decided to kill her and the rest of his family for money so he would be "respected" because he is a loser. Yet, he claims the murder didn't change the relationship that he and his sister supposedly had for each other. I wonder if his dead sister feels the same way. He wrote wills for both his parents because he planned to kill his parents after his sister, but things didn't work out. So he killed his sister for nothing yet still claims to love her. He also ended up killing his poor father who I believe because of his wife's sheer lack of emotion felt the family should stick together compelling the father to have to associate with this monster of a son for the next fifteen years. He lost a hundred pounds and developed diabetes and slowly withered away in this situation of losing his beloved daughter and trying to maintain a "family unit" with his murderous son, who never expressed any remorse and only showed an empty soul.
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