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"Crash Course in Romance" is a series that is rock solid through fifteen episodes, and then limps to the finish line with a very mediocre final episode. It was clear that the writers had enough material for fifteen episodes, and then ended up having to come up with some gimmicks to stretch it to sixteen, which is almost always a mistake for a writer to make.

This is a series that is part romance, part thriller, which is something that the Koreans are masters. They are fantastic at utilizing multiple genres within a single series and making it work.

This is a series that seeks to shed light on the obsession with education in Korea. Korea is one of the top countries in education, which obviously accounts for much of the country's success. But, at what cost? Korea also has one of the highest suicide rates in the world, especially among teens. You're dealing with tiger moms, worn-out kids, and one of the most competitive cultures in the world.

I am an ESL teacher, and I have lived and worked in Korea, China, and Taiwan in the Asian countries. While education is huge in all three, Korea surpasses the others when it comes to an almost obsessive, compulsive need to be the best. And this series does a tremendous job of exposing the education culture of Korea with the realization that change is needed.

First of all, students in Korea are expected to study from sunrise, and in many cases, until midnight or later. This is true for children as young as 2nd or 3rd grade. I remember asking many of my students on the eve of a long holiday what they planned to do (thinking that they might do something fun). All of them said, "Studying. My parents told me to bring my books on our vacation." In the series, we see the culture of students in Nam Hae Yi, Bang Soo Ah, and Lee Seon Jae.

Bang Soo Ah has an unhealthy and frenetic outlook on her education. If she doesn't finish as #1, she sees herself as a failure. But worse than that, she gets angry at those who beat her, feeling that they must have done something wrong or dishonest.

Lee Seon Jae is put under such pressure from his mother, that he ends up doing something terribly wrong.

Second, we have Tiger moms. This a term used to describe mothers who are so obsessed with their children's education and future, that nothing else matters to them. They will even dictate to teachers what should or shouldn't be done. We have a number of tiger moms depicted in this series. Of course, they will all state that it's for their children. This is a lie. These are women who live vicariously through their own kids and use them to achieve social status. Their children are nothing but pawns, and yes, this is a form of child abuse. It's no less abusive for moms in the west who give little-to-no attention to their kids, not caring what they do or don't do. That is abuse too. These are two cultures of extremes, where balance is needed. Make no mistake: most children in Asian countries and cultures are never given much of a chance to be a kid. Many of their lives are mapped and planned out for them. They are told who to marry, what job they will do, and what to do every single day. I have spoken with so many native teachers of these countries who say that they hate their education system.

Believe it or not, I actually had a Korean student who was upset with his test scores at school. His own mother told him, "If you can't do any better than this, then you should throw yourself off the balcony!" Yes, that's a true story.

In this series, we have tiger moms who will do anything to bring other students down. Other mothers down. In short, there isn't much they won't do to ensure that their child is among the elite. Now, you may look at some of the scenes in this series and say, "Goodness! Do those things really happen? Do mothers really do these kinds of things?" Yes, they do. And that is the truth of the harsh reality that virtually nothing depicted in this series is exaggerated.

Choi Chi Yeol is arguably Korea's top academy math teacher. He's so popular, that moms and students line up on the street for a chance to get into one of his classes. There's no doubt that he's a great teacher, bringing great enthusiasm and passion to his classrooms. However, it's also apparent that teaching is all there is for him. He can barely eat, and he even sleeps less. And his small, bubble world is finally blown up when he meets Nam Haeng Seon. What's funny is that Choi Chi Yeol is horrible at remembering people's names, including those he works with. However, someone is killing anyone who attempts to harm Choi Chi Yeol, and we're given a pretty good thriller aspect as we try to figure out who it could be.

Nam Haeng Seon is a woman who runs a small side-dish café while raising her niece who was left on Nam Haeng Seon's doorstep when the girl was only a few years old. It's clear that Nam Haeng Seon wants the best for her niece, but she wisely allows Nam Hae Yi to choose and create her own path. In short, she's a supportive mother who isn't a tiger mom. She's a perfect balance of supporting Nam Hae Yi without going overboard.

The relationship between Choi Chi Yeol and Nam Haeng Seon is endearing and cute, despite the fact that occasionally, there appears to be little romantic chemistry between the two leads. Don't get me wrong. Jeon Do Yeon and Jung Kyung Ho are masterful in their roles. But I made me wonder if the fact that Jeon Do Yeon is 10+ years older than her co-star had something to do with it. I've seen Jung Kyung Ho in series like "Hospital Playlist" and he's nothing short of brilliant in this series as well. He's very believable as the tightly wound and somewhat aloof math teacher. I was also very impressed with Roh Yoon Seo (Nam Hae Yi). This young lady has a bright future ahead of her.

This series was a "10" for me until the last episode. The writers suddenly forced a contrived storyline upon us where Nam Hae Yi's mother comes back, and she suddenly announces that she's going to move with her selfish, gold-digging mother to Japan, which comes right out of the blue. Also, it simply doesn't fit with the character of Nam Hae Yi. Now, one might believe that she did it to protect her aunt and Choi Chi Yeol, but no resolution or discussion is ever made to account for her behavior. It was ridiculous and it didn't fit with the rest of the story. We also got no real resolution between Lee Seon Jae's mother and his brother, whom she suspected of being a murderer. A resolution scene there would have gone far, but that came up short as well.

All in all, this was a very nice series to be a part of. I'm glad that someone decided to shed some light on Korea's issues with the educational system. It's high time the children stop paying the price for their parents' obsession with status. This series would have been perfect had it ended after 15 episodes, but even with the lackluster 16th, it's still a good series!

This show is cute and wholesome, don't get me wrong, but viewers should be warned that the overarching story ends up being more dark than the title reveals (as someone who has watched through episode 15).

While part of the main story revolves around the cute romance between two mature single characters, another part revolves around Korean societal issues such as college admissions pressure from desperate parents and the depression, anger, and suic*dality that it results in for students. This second part of the story becomes the main part of the story halfway through, with the looming threat and mystery of a sadistic serial killer hanging over the main character's lives.

Unfortunately, I felt that this secondary and more gruesome storyline spoiled the romance and became its foil; when the main characters seemed to reach their happiness, the drama shifted to a more depressing storyline and lost its charm.

I've fallen in love with these actors and characters, but it's a shame that I haven't been able to enjoy them fully due to this strangely placed villain arc that doesn't match the tone of the rest of the show and seems to be pointless with no real moral takeaway.

I wish Crash Course in Romance would've been more like Hometown Cha Cha Cha with no forced villain arc but instead a focus on the real lives and development of the good characters. Of course, this is a classic move for Kdramas, but it felt like an awkward and tasteless choice for an otherwise wholesome, fun, and happy drama.

A very good story and terrific cast. This series was one of the best I've seen in years. The storylines were believable and the characters were authentic. Really enjoyed watching every week and looked forward to it! The main characters were likable and had great chemistry. You won't be disappointed. Now that the entire series has dropped you can binge it! The male & female leads did an excellent job. They made the transition of adversarial relationship to loving relationship very well. The female lead was fantastic. So much empathy and heart, I loved her! The girl who played the daughter was terrific and I hope to see her again.

9/10 is my rating. This is a 2023 South Korean comedy romance drama with 16, 70 Minute Episodes.

First I provide a synopsis then a review.

Synopsis Nam Haeng-seon's (Jeon Do-yeon) has been all about supporting the niece her sister abandoned and her autistic brother. After giving up a spot on the national handball team to raise her niece and take care of her disabled brother, she carries on with the recipes her deceased mother used and runs a banchan shop that became a favorite of food bloggers. Money is tight as a single wage earner and the last thing she needs is to deal with an eccentric spoiled celebrity who breaks her autistic brother's phone following an misunderstanding. Or so she thinks. Choi Chi-yeol (Jung Kyung-ho) works at an elite academy where people line up quite literally to get their child a prized spot in one of his tutor classes. The two are destined to interact though as Haeng-seon's niece requests a slot in Chi-yeol's sessions so she can bring up her scores and Chi-yeol finds that, for some reason, Haeng-seon's food is the only food that does not trigger his eating disorder. It provides a slice of life of South Korea's competitive educational system which provides a backdrop for an unlikely romance.

Review

Overall a very light hearted romantic comedy with a slice of life into the competitive world of academics. I found that view on how much power and influence wealthy parents can have interesting and not all that different than what you might see with ivy league colleges in the United States. I recommend it for anyone that likes straight forward romances, slice of life and family dynamics.

Spoilers

The male and female lead had a 10 year age gap in the actual ages of the actors with the Jeon Do-Yeon being 10 years older than Jung Kung-ho. Do yeon is a beautiful and elegant lady but she looks her age. Kung-ho has a young face that looked even younger than his age and made the gap seem even larger. Both did an amazing job acting but the physical appearance of the age gap really disrupted the chemistry in my opinion. It was more sweet than passionate.

It was a little disappointing that the issue with Chi-yeol's assistant Ji-Dong Hee (Shin Jae-ha) ended with suicide. It felt like too little for everything he had done.

The chemistry between Haeng-seong's best friend, Kim Yong-joo (Lee Bong-ryun) and her brother, Nam Jae-woo (Oh Eui-shick) was also off. With the brother's autism it would have taken a slow build over the series with them slowly showing feelings for each other. Her abruptly expressing interest in him seemed like she was doing it only out of loneliness and his reciprocation wound up feeling like pity. There was no "ah finally" when they became a couple because it really wasn't that much of the series where she expressed interest in him, he initially rejected her, then they were together.

As a fan of the reality dating show "Heart Signal" I was fan girling when Bae Yoon-kyung had a role as Chi-yeol's blind date and 2nd romantic interest. I am excited her acting career has taken off and I thought she did a great job in this show.

I loved the relationship between the daughter/nice, Nam Hae-Yi (Roh Yoon-seo) and her aunt/mother Nan Haeng-seon (Jeon Do-yeon). If you love and raise a child biology does not matter. And, an aunt, because of dominant and recessive genes can be more closely genetically related to their niece or nephew than the mother anyway.

I loved the relationship between the daughter/niece, Nam Hae-Yi (Roh Yoon-seo) and her aunt/mother Nan Haeng-seon (Jeon Do-yeon). If you love and raise a child biology does not matter. And, an aunt, because of dominant and recessive genes can be more closely genetically related to their niece or nephew than the mother anyway. Did I not want to see Hae-Yi try to fix him or feel like she owed anyone that, I felt like he wasn't there for her during some really key times when he withdrew and basically ghosted her. That is why I was more a fan of her dating the ice hockey player and fellow student Seo Geon-hu (Lee Min-jae) because he was more straight forward with his feelings, always there for her, and I thought he would have been very good for the often too serious and underconfident Hae-yi. Instead he wound up with selfish and spoiled and almost mean girl Bang Soo-ah (Kang Na-eon) who he claimed was nice but, aside from one time when she welcomed back Hae-yi when she returned from the hospital and gave her notes, never showed a kind side. I thought the ice hockey playing, lovable and handsome Geon-hu deserved better.

The friendship between Geon-hu and Seon-jae was cute as it developed out of their rivalry over Hae-ri. I felt like Geon-hu gave up Hae-ri as he could tell her hear was with Seon-jae but also he started to like Seon-jae as a friend and was willing to give up the girl for the friendship. Still I wish he hadn't settled for a character I did not find likeable. Hae-ri's loyal girl friend Jang Dan Ji (Ryu Da-In) would have been a better choice as she was consistently nice and loyal and he did seem to have a flirty friendship going on with her before he suddenly switched to Soo-ah.

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Many K dramas point out the lengths parents in South Korea go to in order to pressure/enable their children to do well on exams. (All for the child's own good, of course). This show emphasized that more than any other by showing suicides, mental and physical breakdowns, cheating, lying, fractured families and even obsessive murder. (Apparently even elementary school children are in after school academies until late at night on daily basis) However that theme did not mesh well with the romance storyline of the more mature workaholic leads. Other than the fact she sacrificed her own dreams to care for family members nothing about the lead actress explained why Choi fell in love with her. She was an annoying unlikeable person. Strangely, her and her employee were dressed like it was 1950s. The add on romance with Jae woo and employee was strange. The consequences of gossips, rumors and social media were also emphasized. The teenage characters, actors and storylines were the best! The lead actor did a fine job. But it should have been two different shows not one.