The story seemed so predictable to me that I was almost sure I'd seen it before, but probably just in episodes of TV sitcoms or maybe movies of the week. The gruff man who doesn't want to get in touch with his feelings, and who feels therapists are quacks, with the long-suffering wife who finally asserts herself to make the man change. Which, of course, he does.
Tommy Lee Jones and Merryl Streep do credible jobs in their stereotypical roles. Steve Carrel plays it mostly straight (almost to extremes, speaking in a calm monotone throughout the film). While some of the ideas of his character (Dr. Feld) are off-beat enough to, I assume, seem funny, the older couple inevitably try them and almost always find they are successful. There was little to indicate why Carrel's character would be seen as a renowned guru in relationships except the fact that he's written a book Streep's character buys, and appears in an online commercial she finds. That is enough to convince her to spend $4,000, plus airfare and hotel (a shameless though two-sided plug for Econolodge), taken from her savings to enroll her and her husband (whom she doesn't tell about the plan until she's paid and planned everything). The therapist is located in a town called Hope Springs. Get it? Hope Springs! GET IT?
While Arnold (Lee) repeatedly—ad infinitum-- voices his belief that therapists are charlatans who just cause problems , there was no real tension based on a much young man giving advice to this couple who have been married for so many years. Feld's own history of relationships is not mentioned. They don't use his advice as a basis to discover own solutions. Feld just knows what they need. At times the characters seemed to sleepwalk through the sessions. When asked about sexual fantasies and Arnold mentions one regarding a neighbor woman, Kay reacts with the same degree of surprise as if saying, "Oh, you liked that movie?"
Arnold changes his personality for the better, then reverts to his old self, then improves again. Rinse and repeat. His problems are not terribly complicated or deep-seated, so they are easily solved. And solved, they are. Just as they would be in a sitcom. Not just a small or medium change on the man's part. He's a new person His wife, who is portrayed as having far fewer problems in terms of intimacy than her husband, is happy--- and vindicated. She's been right all along, and Arnold realizes he's been a fool. Life is simple. Going to a book stores (preferably Barnes & Noble) pays off.
You don't go into a film like this expecting surprises, and there are virtually none. As soon as Streep's character talks about fantasies, you know exactly—I mean exactly—what the last scene in the movie will be.
The film, lauded by some as showing "mature" sex, could have been so much more.
Tommy Lee Jones and Merryl Streep do credible jobs in their stereotypical roles. Steve Carrel plays it mostly straight (almost to extremes, speaking in a calm monotone throughout the film). While some of the ideas of his character (Dr. Feld) are off-beat enough to, I assume, seem funny, the older couple inevitably try them and almost always find they are successful. There was little to indicate why Carrel's character would be seen as a renowned guru in relationships except the fact that he's written a book Streep's character buys, and appears in an online commercial she finds. That is enough to convince her to spend $4,000, plus airfare and hotel (a shameless though two-sided plug for Econolodge), taken from her savings to enroll her and her husband (whom she doesn't tell about the plan until she's paid and planned everything). The therapist is located in a town called Hope Springs. Get it? Hope Springs! GET IT?
While Arnold (Lee) repeatedly—ad infinitum-- voices his belief that therapists are charlatans who just cause problems , there was no real tension based on a much young man giving advice to this couple who have been married for so many years. Feld's own history of relationships is not mentioned. They don't use his advice as a basis to discover own solutions. Feld just knows what they need. At times the characters seemed to sleepwalk through the sessions. When asked about sexual fantasies and Arnold mentions one regarding a neighbor woman, Kay reacts with the same degree of surprise as if saying, "Oh, you liked that movie?"
Arnold changes his personality for the better, then reverts to his old self, then improves again. Rinse and repeat. His problems are not terribly complicated or deep-seated, so they are easily solved. And solved, they are. Just as they would be in a sitcom. Not just a small or medium change on the man's part. He's a new person His wife, who is portrayed as having far fewer problems in terms of intimacy than her husband, is happy--- and vindicated. She's been right all along, and Arnold realizes he's been a fool. Life is simple. Going to a book stores (preferably Barnes & Noble) pays off.
You don't go into a film like this expecting surprises, and there are virtually none. As soon as Streep's character talks about fantasies, you know exactly—I mean exactly—what the last scene in the movie will be.
The film, lauded by some as showing "mature" sex, could have been so much more.
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