When I finished watching the movie "Bride Wars", I commented it on our school bbs. I said that the fights against each other between the two women were so horrible. A male friend claimed that the conflicts of young ladies in another movie "Mean Girls" were even more terrifying. Therefore, I've found the movie and looked it through.
However, I still stick to my point that the first one seems more pathetic to me. Frequently in life, who hurts you most is not your biggest enemy but one of those that you think are your bosom friends. This is partly because these people possess of wider knowledge about you, your secrets, your weaknesses, and everything else. Moreover, the betrayal of whom you really care about itself can be a huge hit to your nerves.
According to my previous experiences, it gets even worse among girls due to their human nature. Male creatures are comparatively more independent. Men enjoy their relations with their soccer pals, hang-round buddies, working partners. They rely on each other, help each other when it is necessary; and go out together for a drink sometimes. But they seldom share their deepest feelings with one another. A man, for instance, would hardly consult another for his troubles of getting along with his girlfriend.
Friendship between girls is quite different from that between boys. Girls are willing to share almost whatever they have with their girl mates. They talk about every detail in life all the time on phone, face to face, over a cup of tea, when shopping together or during the sleepover time. It's so natural for a girl to offer her own lip-care stick when she sees her friend's lips are dry. And it's common for a girl to open up with her friends about all the freaky habits of the bastard she's dating for the moment. When a girl takes you as her true friend, you could definitely expect that she would try everything she could and use every single piece of her resources to help you out when you're in trouble, while male friends tend to give you a hand only when you ask and at the cost they could afford without any impact to their normal life. I'm not trying to accuse men of being unhelpful or indifferent. They are just more rational and would consider more about their duties to their own families and others that they're supposed to be responsible to.
Up to now, you might assume my point is that true friendship only happens or say has more possibilities to occur in girls' world. Please don't take it wrong. That's not what I'm saying. Women are sensitive and easy to go extreme. They can be as strong hating you as they are loving you. Liv and Emma in "Bride Wars" are very good example of its kind. I'm not surprised why and how they did it. Not at all. The only thing astonishing me is that they finally forgave each other and got their friendship back. They let everything go just as it never happened and became closest friends again.
I can hardly believe this. And I've never seen this in reality before. I don't know whether it is faked out in movies or other fictional works or it does happen in the west. But I do hope for its existence anyway.
Friendship's excessively fragile, maybe frailer than true love, I guess. However, the frailty and rarity make it even more precious.
However, I still stick to my point that the first one seems more pathetic to me. Frequently in life, who hurts you most is not your biggest enemy but one of those that you think are your bosom friends. This is partly because these people possess of wider knowledge about you, your secrets, your weaknesses, and everything else. Moreover, the betrayal of whom you really care about itself can be a huge hit to your nerves.
According to my previous experiences, it gets even worse among girls due to their human nature. Male creatures are comparatively more independent. Men enjoy their relations with their soccer pals, hang-round buddies, working partners. They rely on each other, help each other when it is necessary; and go out together for a drink sometimes. But they seldom share their deepest feelings with one another. A man, for instance, would hardly consult another for his troubles of getting along with his girlfriend.
Friendship between girls is quite different from that between boys. Girls are willing to share almost whatever they have with their girl mates. They talk about every detail in life all the time on phone, face to face, over a cup of tea, when shopping together or during the sleepover time. It's so natural for a girl to offer her own lip-care stick when she sees her friend's lips are dry. And it's common for a girl to open up with her friends about all the freaky habits of the bastard she's dating for the moment. When a girl takes you as her true friend, you could definitely expect that she would try everything she could and use every single piece of her resources to help you out when you're in trouble, while male friends tend to give you a hand only when you ask and at the cost they could afford without any impact to their normal life. I'm not trying to accuse men of being unhelpful or indifferent. They are just more rational and would consider more about their duties to their own families and others that they're supposed to be responsible to.
Up to now, you might assume my point is that true friendship only happens or say has more possibilities to occur in girls' world. Please don't take it wrong. That's not what I'm saying. Women are sensitive and easy to go extreme. They can be as strong hating you as they are loving you. Liv and Emma in "Bride Wars" are very good example of its kind. I'm not surprised why and how they did it. Not at all. The only thing astonishing me is that they finally forgave each other and got their friendship back. They let everything go just as it never happened and became closest friends again.
I can hardly believe this. And I've never seen this in reality before. I don't know whether it is faked out in movies or other fictional works or it does happen in the west. But I do hope for its existence anyway.
Friendship's excessively fragile, maybe frailer than true love, I guess. However, the frailty and rarity make it even more precious.
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