And with that I don't mean Mrs. Anthony. Because it seems as if there may be plenty of reasons to go for reasonable doubt and none of us will ever be able to know what really happened. Personally, I'm just glad I didn't have to be on that jury and forced to give an opinion on what had likely happened. Also, I'm equally glad I don't know her personally. Because then I'd probably felt forced to be in the absolute impossible situation to have an opinion about her. And - even if she was/is completely innocent - I'd probably always have this nagging voice in the back of my head: is she, or isn't she a murderer. So, if she is innocent - and, again, it seems as if there is more than enough for reasonable doubt - what a terrible burden to live with for her. Also, how potentially unspeakable that the only person who may know that she speaks the truth could be her potentially child-rapist father - which would again tie her in the most despicable way to him for life. What a terrible, terrible situation.
But the self-righteousness I mean is the one of all these people here who are so very sure they know what happened because 'they would never react the way she did', or have 'this gut feeling', or because they just never in their lives have been in situations that are just not 'normal' but instead deeply traumatizing - or just have watched way too much inflammatory trash TV. Is it possible she made everything up? For sure. But the absolute same goes for the opposite. Everyone who has in any way experience with childhood trauma or sexual abuse knows that everything she says (including the timeline to only speak out now) would make perfect sense as well. Makes me only wonder about all these people here who seem to deeply enjoy their hatred towards a convenient target.
Also, the cop saying that there was no evidence of sexual abuse is almost cute in it's naivité because this is the very thing that an incestuous child-rapists will make sure of: that there will never be any evidence. So, what an unprofessional thing to say. Again, not saying it did happen (who I am to even have an opinion about it) - but the lack of evidence is not at all the evidence of the opposite. Not to mention: she seem to have talked about it before her kid died.
I also don't understand why people have no issue at all to write that they 'hate her' for telling her story and to say that'd be 'making everything about herself'. Wow. Self-righteous to no end. After all, there were obviously enough people closely associated with her who thought she deserved to tell her own side of the story - probably particularly in light of everything that has been told ABOUT her. Also: this was not a series called 'remembering the little daughter' - it was about giving her the opportunity to tell her side of the story. And that much she should be allowed to do. NO ONE was forced to listen. Also: imagine for one second everything she said was true. Maybe it wasn't. But if it was: actively denying a victim the right to speak their own truth would make us potenitally complicit in shutting up a victim. What an impossible situation all of this is. So, I don't see how expressing hatred here would make any of this remotely better.
So, if we are in a judgemental mood: the only judgement we should maybe make is about the people here who enjoy spreading their own hatred about a person and a person's story they know nothing about except what trash TV enraged them with.
Regarding the docu-series in itself: I think it has the right to exist. And maybe it's even important so we can learn to shut up about things we don't know anything about for sure.
But the self-righteousness I mean is the one of all these people here who are so very sure they know what happened because 'they would never react the way she did', or have 'this gut feeling', or because they just never in their lives have been in situations that are just not 'normal' but instead deeply traumatizing - or just have watched way too much inflammatory trash TV. Is it possible she made everything up? For sure. But the absolute same goes for the opposite. Everyone who has in any way experience with childhood trauma or sexual abuse knows that everything she says (including the timeline to only speak out now) would make perfect sense as well. Makes me only wonder about all these people here who seem to deeply enjoy their hatred towards a convenient target.
Also, the cop saying that there was no evidence of sexual abuse is almost cute in it's naivité because this is the very thing that an incestuous child-rapists will make sure of: that there will never be any evidence. So, what an unprofessional thing to say. Again, not saying it did happen (who I am to even have an opinion about it) - but the lack of evidence is not at all the evidence of the opposite. Not to mention: she seem to have talked about it before her kid died.
I also don't understand why people have no issue at all to write that they 'hate her' for telling her story and to say that'd be 'making everything about herself'. Wow. Self-righteous to no end. After all, there were obviously enough people closely associated with her who thought she deserved to tell her own side of the story - probably particularly in light of everything that has been told ABOUT her. Also: this was not a series called 'remembering the little daughter' - it was about giving her the opportunity to tell her side of the story. And that much she should be allowed to do. NO ONE was forced to listen. Also: imagine for one second everything she said was true. Maybe it wasn't. But if it was: actively denying a victim the right to speak their own truth would make us potenitally complicit in shutting up a victim. What an impossible situation all of this is. So, I don't see how expressing hatred here would make any of this remotely better.
So, if we are in a judgemental mood: the only judgement we should maybe make is about the people here who enjoy spreading their own hatred about a person and a person's story they know nothing about except what trash TV enraged them with.
Regarding the docu-series in itself: I think it has the right to exist. And maybe it's even important so we can learn to shut up about things we don't know anything about for sure.
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