This is one of those movies that is just better the second time you watch it.
The first time I saw this film was opening weekend in the theaters. From the previews I was expecting a typical Vince Vaughn film; a Dodge Ball or Old School type comedy about a break-up. However, a few minutes into the movie and you quickly realize the advertising was completely off the mark (and probably advertised it the way it did solely to get people to shell out $8 a ticket to come see it, not to be true to the movie). My husband and I found ourselves watching a movie that is not funny, horribly uncomfortable in certain areas, incredibly frustrating, and does NOT leave you with a typical happily ever after ending. Walking out you could hear the mumbling from the crowd and the consensus was clear: what was that? That was not the light hearted comedy we were made to believe we went to see. That was a drama, a drama I think that hits too close to home for many people and reminds them of things and fights they've had in their own lives.
So it isn't too big of a surprise that I had yet to watch the movie a second time until last night. A girlfriend of mine is going through a break up with her own boyfriend so we decided to rent The Break-Up and drink wine as a kind of theme night. I found myself surprised at how much I liked the movie the next time around.
The movie starts out with Vince Vaughn's character, Gary, and Jennifer Aniston's character, Brooke, meeting for the first time at a baseball game. She's there with another man and Gary doesn't care, happily pursuing her with his jokes and flattery. Then the opening credits catalogue the happy times of the couple with lots and lots of happy/funny/romantic pictures. Then we enter the real story, which is however many months or years later when the couple lives together and faces the same fights that a lot of people go through: he doesn't want to help clean or cook right after he gets home and she feels like all her work is taken for granted, he feels like she just needs to give him twenty minutes to unwind after work before he starts 'nagging' her.
The interesting thing watching their fights the second time around is how true to life this movie is. I think that is very hard for people to watch. We go to movies to escape reality, not see it on the big screen in an uncomfortably real way. The biggest thing that struck me is miscommunication. Each one of them couldn't get their message across and so they just ended up yelling at each other, each of them feeling hurt and attacked and neither of them really understanding WHY things were so difficult for them in the first place. I thought it was also interesting to see how much our friends influence us when we are in these types of situations. Both Brooke and Gary wound up talking to their friends before making most of their decisions about the relationship and what to do next.
After the couple breaks up, there is a lot of uncomfortable public fights that they have around their mutual friends. Then one of their friends, who also happens to be their realator, advises them to sell their apartment. Brooke secretly harbors a desire to get back together with Gary and starts to look for ways to get him to realize that he still wants her. She tries excluding him from their bowling team so he'll feel lonely, going on blind dates with other men to make him jealous, walking to the kitchen naked to make him see what he's missing... But all of this without coming right out and telling him that she didn't want to sell their condo and really just wanted him to show that he appreciated her and all the hard work she had put into their relationship. Gary tries as hard as he can to let Brooke see that he is not hurt or upset by her behavior, and after she leaves for one blind date (that she incidentally ditches as soon as she is out of sight of their Condo), he has his brother invite some girls over for a strip poker/dance night. They both do ugly things to hurt each other and underneath it all they still have feelings for one another...which is a sad fact of life. We all do things when we are hurt and angry that are hurtful to someone that we care about. (I am actually really proud of these two actors for making a movie dedicated to that part of people's lives, it was done very well.) The scene towards the end when Gary makes dinner for Brooke was very beautiful...and also very unexpected. It was so anti-Hollywood. It would have been easy to say happily ever after but they took the more complicated approach, which I think probably upset most people watching the movie. I hope if you sit down to watch it again that you can appreciate it MORE for its decision to do that, however. It is not always easy to make a movie that doesn't wrap everything up with a pretty bow at the end...
The very last scene of the movie is my favorite. It leaves you with a feeling of hope that their could be more to this story, but not in the form of sequel or anything like that. But maybe, just maybe, this movie was just a glimpse at a bad time in the couples lives and you can let your imagination figure out what might happen to them next.
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