we like this , we remember. After many years we do not know the perfect finish to survive , and then remember life is not so Oath , is not so hard and happiness. There are also bitter sweet . My mother had a word, I always think very philosophical , " the child just born crying , who came into the world proved to suffer here." We all worked hard , in suffering, we may abandon ; may resent ; may be angry. But it is still unable to change the cruel reality . Thousand arrows wear heart, not the heroine 's heart , but the hearts of each of us , we have struggled in pain, we have to fight over in annoyance , but we are still unable to be " Oath " .