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9/10
This episode highlights what an insufferable pompous clown Mike is.
LaverneandShirleysucks9 November 2021
I love this episode even though there's no Archie because things pick up quickly and continue rolling to the end that you have no time to miss him here.

An intelligent college friend named Stuart comes to visit Mike and from the moment he enters the house Mike wants to do nothing but discuss highly intellectual subjects and play chess.

Stuart however wants to put his brain to rest for a while and just be a normal human being visiting friends. He wants to play charades when Gloria suggests the game. But Mike quickly admonishes that and would rather show off how smart he is to his intellectual friend instead.

He's insufferable and pompous throughout the episode correcting his wife as if she's a student in class, waving her away to go fetch coffee and cookies rather than participate in conversation. His treatment of his wife in front of his friend is disgraceful. Stuart notices this and appears uncomfortable, and makes every effort to let Mike know he wants to include Gloria in the evening but Mike continues his embarrassing treatment towards his wife.

Gloria finally reaches the point where she's had enough and tells Mike to "Shove it" and leaves the room. We see Stuart laughing hysterically at that because he obviously agrees with her and feels the same way.

Mike has always been this way, but this episode really highlights it. In fact, in "Games Bunkers Play" Edith even told Mike how "stuck up" he can be and that "if you were really smarter than Archie, you'd be smart enough not to let him see that you were smarter than him."

But Mike can't do this....at every turn he has to let other people around him know that he's smarter than them. Either he really believes this, or he doesn't and is incredibly insecure with himself that he says it to overcompensate.

Another example is in a later season during a Scrabble game with Gloria, he laughs and belittles a word she uses because it's too simple. They're all alone here and he still has to boast how smart he is to his wife rather than just enjoy a game of Scrabble.

In the same episode he does it to Archie when he smugly corrects his use of the word "lend" when it should have been "loan".....at that moment, Archie let's him know what we're all thinking.....WHO CARES?!

Mike has been this way throughout the entire series and when Gloria worries in this episode that one day Mike will outgrow her because she barely finished High School and he's going for his Masters, she has a very valid point.

In fact that's exactly what he did later on during "Archie Bunker's Place" when he left her for a college student. Gloria has her issues, but in this episode all her suspicions of Mike are right on target.

He's an insufferable pompous ass and it's amazing Gloria put up with him for so long. I give this episode a 9 rating because it's really good even though you want to reach into the tv screen and smack Mike upside his head.
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2/10
Kept pushing a theme that didn't work
vitoscotti2 February 2022
2 married people all of a sudden are strangers? None of these conflicts were ever discussed all these years? Mike really is insufferable here. Gloria should be worrying if he's really this pompous. Not a fun episode. Carroll O'Connor if he saw this during his strike probably thought it was a big help to his side.
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4/10
"...he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow." Eccl. 1:18
GaryPeterson673 January 2008
Warning: Spoilers
All Mike wants to do is enjoy an evening with his college chum Stu, with whom he hopes to discuss those scholarly topics he can't at home with Archie, Edith and Gloria. But Gloria won't even allow her husband that small pleasure, butting in with inanities and trying to reset the evening's agenda (let's play charades!). Her constant hovering and attempts to shoehorn herself into their evening provoked me to shout at the screen, "Take the hint and take a hike!!"

As longtime viewers of the series know (and which is made abundantly evident in this episode), Gloria operates under the childlike delusion of the universe revolving around her. When the ever-coddling Edith comes into her room to console the pouting Gloria with a rather insightful story about how some people are book-smart and others people-smart, Gloria interrupts and blurts out about how she doesn't see how this story applies to her situation. Instead of feeling sympathetic to Gloria's insecurity about her low intelligence and the possibility of losing Mike, I felt only anger and frustration towards her. After all, she brought this whole thing upon herself, first with her interminable interrogation of Mike over whether he would lay down his life for her and second by not knowing when to give her husband a little space to enjoy a friendship.

"Mike's Friend" is certainly one of the most grating Gloria-featured episodes yet (there are other contenders), maybe made worse by the fact Archie was AWOL and she was given more screen time than usual.

As for Mike's friend, Stu, despite studying for his doctorate degree in philosophy, it seems he's not very interested in the things of the mind and would much rather hit on Gloria, play charades and go bowling than discuss thoughtful subjects. In the end, my sympathy went out to Mike, who one feels is a man of the mind destined to living a life of quiet desperation.
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